"God doesn't give children with special needs to strong people; He gives children with special needs to ordinary, weak people and then gives them strength. Raising a child with special needs doesn't take a special family, it makes a special family."--Author Unknown

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

School Time!! Who Knew the Tooth Fairy was a Financial Plan?!

The night before school started we were all trying to get settled into the rental home. We had sent the kids to bed when Daniel came upstairs about an hour later saying his tooth was loose. I was quite skeptical because he is always looking for ways to stay awake past his bedtime and I thought his "loose tooth" was one of his schemes. I was wrong. He came over to show me how wiggly his tooth was. Now I HATE teeth and anything to do with teeth--loose teeth especially give me the hee-bee-jee-bees!! After I got a glimpse of how loose it was I immediately sent him over to Aaron. Within a minute of messing with it Aaron had Daniel's tooth out. This is Daniel's first tooth to come out. After his tooth came out Daniel was too excited to get upset when he saw the blood in his mouth. Daniel was excited to put his tooth in a special tooth cup on the kitchen table for the Tooth Fairy to find and replace it with some money.After we got the kids to bed to stay I laid out their clothes, shoes and backpacks for the next morning.Wow that first getting ready for school morning was hectic!! We had all become rusty over the summer--that's for sure! Here's the kids' pics that morning:
Matthew:Josh:Daniel:Sarah, of course, saw everyone else was getting their pictures taken and screamed until I took her picture, too. That is why her face is all red and splotchy.Unfortunately, in moving our kids had to change schools. It wasn't too bad for Matthew because he had to change schools regardless of wherever we moved. He is not attending the same school as Josh and Daniel. The change in schools has been hardest on Josh. It has been hard for him to be the "new kid" when he had lots of friends at his old school. Hopefully things will get better as the year goes on. One positive thing about living in the rental home is that we are far enough away for the kids to get bussed to school. That sure makes things a lot easier for me!! Matthew's bus comes first and picks him up right in front of our house--it's so nice!! Josh and Daniel's bus stop is about a half a block and around a corner from where we live. The first morning I wanted to walk Josh to the bus stop to make sure we knew where it was. I had good intentions, but we got out the door a little late since someone had pooped their pants and had to be changed ASAP!! We were walking to the bus stop and I was trying to hurry. Sarah had other plans. She wanted to dawdle and take her time and every time I tried to grab her hand she either ran away from me or threw herself to the ground in tantrum mode. When we turned to corner to find the bus stop we saw the bus was already there and was getting ready to drive away. In a panic I ran down the middle of the road trying to get the bus driver to see that Josh needed to get on. Since I had to leave Sarah and Daniel behind in order to get Josh on the bus, Daniel was coming unglued. He kept screaming at me that Sarah wasn't coming. Thankfully the bus driver saw Josh and let him on. However, after Josh got on the bus and it drove away Sarah and Daniel were still screaming down the street. Daniel was screaming that Sarah wasn't holding his hand and Sarah was screaming because Daniel was trying to grab her hand. It was a right regular scream fest for all our new neighbors to see. Thankfully, Noah was contentedly sitting in his stroller watching the screamfest going on like it was the best entertainment he'd seen. Since it was so chaotic I didn't get a picture of Josh getting on the bus for the first time :(.

Daniel's first day of kindergarten was only an hour so he didn't ride the bus that day. I had to drop him off and pick him back up again at the school. When we went to drop him off he walked right in and sat down in his seat. I was a proud mama, but secretly I was a little sad to see he didn't need his mama like the other little kid who was screaming her head off. He was excited to go. As I was leaving he did come over and give me a hug goodbye so that made me feel a little better.

Besides that hour on the first day of school the rest of the week the kindergartners didn't attend. All the kindergartners have to be tested to see what their skills are. Daniel's testing time was Thursday afternoon. I had to take Noah and Sarah with me. While the teacher was over testing Daniel I got to fill out a bunch of paperwork. While I was trying to do that I gave Noah a bottle and Sarah my phone to play with to keep them busy. After Daniel had finished testing the teacher came over to talk to me. She had a few questions about Daniel's food allergies. During the testing and while the teacher and I were visiting Sarah had been playing Angry Birds on my phone. There happened to be a lull in mine and the teacher's conversation for a second. At that exact moment Sarah screamed at the phone, "THAT TOOPID TING!! (that stupid thing)" I guess the game didn't do what she wanted it to so she was telling it off. However, that is what I usually say whenever I can't get something to work. I am sure glad she chose that exact moment to mimic me for the teacher to hear and everything. Awesome!! Hey at least it wasn't something worse than 'toopid'--phew!! In visiting with the teacher I did find that Daniel's class were going to have 12 color food experience days that different parents volunteered to bring in. The only bad thing about that is I don't have any control over what is brought in so who knows what would be Daniel friendly and what wouldn't be Daniel friendly. I decided to take matters into my own hands and went shopping to get some Daniel friendly rainbow food options. All I can say is good thing Skittles is a Rainbow of Flavors!!! For the color white we did lifesavers, brown--rootbeer barrels, black--oreo cookies and for all the other colors we just found different flavored Skittles. I hope I covered all the colors that they are doing. If not, I threw in some fruit snacks and crackers for good measure.


Since all the kindergartners had testing instead of school all the first week, Daniel didn't get a chance to ride the bus for the first time until yesterday morning. I also wanted to take a picture of him getting on the bus for the first time. As we were getting ready to leave the house to walk down to the bus stop I smelled something quite foul. Yep, sure enough both Sarah and Noah had way stinky diapers. What great timing they have! I hurried up and changed them both and we left to walk down to the bus only to have the same thing that happened with Josh's first day happen again--as we turned the corner the bus was starting to pull away. Luckily, they waited for Daniel and Josh to get on before pulling away. That also means I did not get a picture of Daniel getting on the school bus for the first ride to school either--Doh!! Oh well, what can you do? However, I did get a picture of Daniel getting off the bus after kindergarten had gotten out. It is almost as good right?! Geez--who knew that Sarah and Noah could be the stereo poopers?



I must say that only having Sarah and Noah around during the morning is awfully quiet. Sarah thinks so, too. She waits patiently by the window with her backpack (on upside down, of course), and her pants on backwards for Daniel to get home from school. Lately she likes dressing herself and does not like to ask for help--thus that is why her pants are on backwards and her backpack on upside down.Of course with the start of school brings a lot of homework. I try to keep the crayons, pencils and erasers up on the counter within easy reach for Daniel, Josh and Matthew to do their homework with. Unfortunately, they were within too easy of a reach for Sarah, too. She broke in the rent house yesterday when she took a pencil and went to town on the walls. Good thing for Magic Eraser!!


One last thing is when we sat down to dinner we asked the kids what they wanted to be when they grew up. Daniel thought about it and said he didn't want to do anything. We then asked him what he would do all day. He said he and his wife would just sit around. We then asked him how he would pay his bills. He thought about it and then said, "Oh, the Tooth Fairy". Now there are a few fatal flaws with this financial plan of his--one is you have a finite number of resources (teeth), and also after you lost all your teeth what then? Also at a dollar a tooth you wouldn't get very far after you lost all your money makers. Glad to know I am raising such ambitious children!! Afterward he did change his mind and say he wanted to be an engineer like his dad. We all breathed a sigh of relief and I think his mouth did, too. Glad the first week of school is over and that we are settling into somewhat of a routine around here.

The Big Move

As I am still trying to catch up I thought I would write about our Big Move from our old house into our rental home. As I was still having stress about moving (I don't do very well with change) I was having a hard time packing. Aaron, the awesome guy he is, did the majority of the packing while I stood by and silently wept and took care of the kids. Thanks to Aaron we were all packed up and ready to move on moving day. When the moving weekend came upon us we were extremely busy! Friday night Aaron went and picked up the biggest moving truck they had available and brought it home. Thankfully, G&G T took all the kids for the weekend so we wouldn't have any little kids underfoot while we were trying to move and unpack in the rental home. Aaron and I worked late into Friday night making sure everything was packed in boxes and taped shut. We got to bed about 1 am only to wake up again at 5:50am to finish everything up. The moving party didn't officially start until 8 am, but we had some early birds come and start to help load up the truck which was nice!! We had a ton of help from friends, neighbors and ward members which made things so much easier! I didn't realize how much stuff we had. We filled up the entire truck and another trailer attached to a truck. Plus we had to come back and pick up all the straggler boxes that we didn't get the first time around. We have really accumulated a ton of crap in the last 8 years--that's for sure!! It only took about three hours to move all the boxes from start to finish. However, unpacking and cleaning up the old house took a lot longer. Thankfully, Johanna, my sister came to help me clean up the old house. After everything got moved out you see how dirty everything is!! Wow, I try to be a good housekeeper, but it was sure dirty!! I was thankful for the help! It took Aaron and I the rest of the weekend to unpack and try to fit a 2300 square foot home into a small 1400 square foot rental home with half the basement unfinished. Luckily it does have a huge garage so most of our stuff fit in the garage even if we have no room to park any of our cars in there. Who even wants to park in a garage anyway ;)?! In living here we have discovered some of our essential living items have been packed away. In looking at the garage and facing the prospect of going spelunking trying to find something, we have to decide how essential that particular item is. Most the time we decide that essential item is not so essential anymore. And if it still remains essential most of the time it is easier to buy a duplicate than to try searching through all the boxes to find the original!!

In the house we have one small living/family room. It fits one couch, the piano, the TV and a few toys and that's with no space to spare!


It only has two bathrooms so one is the kids bathroom and one is the adult bathroom. It also only has three bedrooms, too. All this extreme family togetherness has taken some getting used to. I have a whole new appreciation for the pioneers and cramming those huge families into one room homes! It is hard enough cramming us into this little home. I don't think my children would survive if we all had to live in a one room home!! It is hard for me at night because I have insomnia and when I can't sleep I either watch some TV or read a book. Unfortunately, the other morning I got up at 3 am to watch some TV only to wake everyone else up with me. It is such close quarters that everyone can hear and see what goes on since we are so close together. Good thing school started and for most of the day I only have two kids at home with me. However, one nice thing about living in a small home it doesn't take long to clean! I just have to remember it is temporary (hopefully only for about 4-5 months) until our real home is built. I keep telling myself I can do this, I can do this, I can do this....and also I love my kids, I love my kids, I love my kids....only four more months, only four more months...

Saturday, August 27, 2011

Sarah's 3!!

I know I am a little late in posting this, but better late than never right?!

The morning of Sarah's birthday I told her it was time to comb her hair. As soon as she heard that she went and hid under the blanket because she didn't want to get her hair combed. To celebrate we went bowling. When we got to the bowling alley they were doing galactic bowling. It's where they turn out all the lights and you bowl by black light with loud music. I was glad to hear the loud music because that meant it would drown out all of my kids' screaming! Yay me!!
Daniel liked the loud music and really danced around while waiting for his turn to bowl--crazy kid!


Of course you can't go anywhere without someone having a meltdown. I asked Sarah to sit down and it appears that is not what she wanted to do right then. She threw herself to the ground and started crying. Can I mention again how thankful I was for the LOUD music to drown out her wailing?!Afterward we went out to dinner at McDonalds. After feeding an army (at least that's what it feels like after our family blew through 100 nuggets, some fries and a few hangaburgers) we were ready for the birthday cupcakes. Sarah had no problem blowing out her three candles--she must get all that hot air from her dad ;).Judging by her face I think the cupcakes were a hit.After dinner and cupcakes we came home and let her open her presents.She was excited to come and show me her new fancy pretty pretties (jewelry) and her fancy dress up shoes.She even got a tea set. Unfortunately for me I didn't read closely on the box that the tea set was actually porcelain. By the next morning half the tea set had been broken. I thought everyone knew that all kids' toys should be made of non breakable material!!!Sarah's interview:

Favorite book: any book anyone will read to her.


Favorite food: most anything. She especially loves fruits and veggies, but I have to limit them unless I want to go through a case of diapers in a day--if you know what I mean!


Favorite activity: Playing with her brothers. Whatever Daniel does she has to do it, too. She also seems to love mischief making. If that were a talent it would be her greatest one!


Favorite color: I think I have successfully brainwashed her into believing pink is the most awesome color. That's what happens when you are the only daughter!!


Favorite friend: Bethy


Sarah is a daredevil and is not afraid of most things. She has recently started speaking and her vocabulary has increased a ton. She loves to snuggle and give kweezes (squeezes) and kisses. She is a go getter and we love her a ton. I am so glad to have her around. She keeps things very interesting and keeps me on my toes even though she is only three! Love you a ton Sarah and happy birthday!

Friday, August 26, 2011

This Old House

Before we left the house for the last time I had to get some pictures! We had to get a picture in the bathroom where we met Sarah for the very first time. This house address is on Sarah's birth certificate as her place of birth. Aaron is also listed as the birth attendant. I still can't believe that happened in this tiny little bathroom of all places!!Here it is with no people in it and you can really see how tiny that bathroom is!!

Here is the front room window where we all got to watch for Matthew's bus to come every morning.
Aaron got to do his first tile job in the master bathroom. What a learning experience!When we poured the cement pad for the sheds out back we had the kids all put their hand prints in the wet cement. We, of course, hadn't even thought about having Noah yet. Their hands look so tiny!When we moved in we didn't have any flowers. We also didn't have much money either. However, when I was pretty pregnant with Daniel I found some tulip bulbs on clearance at the store. I bought them, brought them home and planted them. It was a very cold and stormy day in September, but the bulbs needed to be planted. I was out there on my hands and knees 34 weeks pregnant trying to plant them. I finally got all the bulbs planted and ended up having Daniel a week later after getting pre-eclampsia. At least the next spring we had some beautiful tulips come up. Every time I looked at those tulips I thought about when they were planted and how they are as old as Daniel. I loved to see them every spring.I was sad to leave behind the swing set Grandpa T built. The kids had so much fun playing on it.Grandpa T also helped Aaron build some much needed shelves in the garage. We will miss those for sure!!I was sad to leave behind the murals on the walls. That was some blood, sweat and tears in getting them painted. Too bad they can't come with us!! We found some clearance cupboards at Lowes one day while we were there. We picked them up for cheap and Aaron hung them for me. It was so nice to have cupboards in my laundry room!When we moved in we were so excited to finally have a walk in closet!The master bedroom wasn't too big, but it was nice to have a master bedroom for us!Here's the boys' bathroom upstairs:Matthew's room. While living here, Matthew stayed in here, then it was Josh's room. Then it was Josh and Daniel's room. Then all three boys shared the room for a bit.I was so excited to finally be able to paint a bedroom pink once we found out Sarah was coming along.After all the furniture was moved out everything looked so empty! Here's the empty living room:The empty family room:We had to pose for one last family picture on our house. So much happened while we lived here. It was really sad saying goodbye for the last time!! Hopefully the next house (not the rental house) will provide as many good memories as this house did!

Monday, August 15, 2011

Dinosaur Park Days 1 & 2, the Zoo and Soccer

Last week I promised the kids we could go to the Dinosaur Park up in Ogden. We finally made it there, but had only been there a few minutes when I got a call from Aaron saying if we wanted a particular house for rent we had to go fill out the background check and other paperwork ASAP. We had only made it through half the Dinosaur Park when we had to leave. I did promise the kids we could come back the next day to make up for us leaving early. During the first day's visit to the Park we saw all the stuff inside the museum part. The kids had lots of fun walking around and looking at stuff--they also had lots of fun tormenting Mom!!! There's a reason why I have so many gray hairs!!! Anyway, everyone had a nice time up until Josh decided he wanted to be funny. He would hide behind the huge dinosaur displays and when Daniel or Sarah would come close, he would jump out and scare them. This seemed to traumatize Sarah and Daniel because they cried for a quite a while--it also didn't help that Sarah didn't get a nap in before we went, either. Here they are looking through the binoculars showing the different ways dinosaurs look at things. Some of the dinosaurs see things directly to the sides of them while others can see straight in front of them. It was interesting. Noah had lots of fun being a standing boy in the stroller. He thinks he is big stuff. Sitting down in the stroller is so babyish--Geez! I did find that Noah was quite afraid of the animatronics dinosaurs because when he saw them he started screaming and crawling up my shoulders--poor kiddo!We were able to come back to the Dino Park the next day, however, our trip was cut short again. I got another call from Aaron saying we needed to go put the deposit down to guarantee we got the house. During this second visit before we had to leave we were able to see most of the outside part of the Dinosaur Park. This little photo place is one of my favorites so I made all my kids pose for a photo. Noah of course is standing up in the stroller and Sarah is climbing on the bars. The sign says, "World's Most Dangerous Creature!" Boy, do they have that right!!On our way out we did stop for a minute in the inside part of the museum again. Josh tried scaring Daniel and Sarah again and they liked it about as much as they had the day before. We had much weeping and wailing not only from Sarah and Daniel, but from me as well because I have been so frazzled lately!!Tuesday Daniel started his soccer season with his friend Sara. He loves soccer and actually does pretty decent when he is not holding hands or playing around with his friend Sara. Daniel informed us he is going to have lots of girls he's going to marry. Sara is one of them as well as his cousin Tess. He's pretty funny! The other morning it was awfully quiet which is never a good thing when Sarah is at home!! I went to go find her and to see what mischief she had gotten into. Lucky for me she was just in my closet trying on my boots. She loves shoes and was contentedly trying them all on. What a funny girl!!Friday was Aaron's day off from work and it was also Families with Special Needs Children Day at Hogle Zoo. Through Hill Air Force Base we were able to get free zoo tickets for our entire family as well as a $5 credit for lunch per person. Awesome!! We headed out and were excited for a fun outing. We got to see lots of different animals. When it was lunch time we stopped to pick something up with our $5 credit only to find the cheapest thing on the menu was the $6.50 kids meal. What?! The kids meal only was four chicken nuggets and a few french fries with a small drink, too! The food prices at the zoo are outrageous!! We had to get something because the kids were really hungry. Just the drinks alone for adults were $3.25. Aaron ordered what he could with the lunch credit and had to add a lot of additional money just to make sure everyone got something to eat. Because the adult drinks were so much money Aaron refused to throw them away until they were gone. That made for some interesting juggling issues since we had only brought one stroller and our stroller does not have drink holders. Between trying to hold on to Sarah, hold those stupid drinks, push the stroller and herd the rest of the boys we really had our hands full!!! However, it was a fun day. We got to see an armadillo:We got to use the magnifying glasses to see the brine shrimp:They had an actual elephant ear you could touch. The boys thought that was interesting--Aaron and I thought it was a bit creepy.We got to watch the Silverback Gorilla get checked out by the Veterinarian:Here's how the kids measured up to the gorillas:Here's how Daniel's hand measured up to the gorilla's hand print:It was a hot day so all the kids needed to stop and get a drink from the lion water fountain. I remember drinking from this exact water fountain when I was a kid coming to the zoo!!Looking at the crocodile:Feeling a sample of tiger fur:Noah made his own fun by leaning over the stroller, drooling into the stroller basket and finger painting with the drool. Fun!Looking at the elephant enclosure. For some reason Aaron didn't get the mom and baby elephant in the picture--and no that is me in the black shirt not the elephant ;). I so need to start losing that baby weight!!Looking at the globe fountain in the entrance. I couldn't see too much of it since Sarah decided to use my sunglasses as a hand hold while sitting on my shoulders.The highlight of Matthew's day was seeing the train go by:Here we are at the prairie dog encounter. Matthew is in the pop up cover looking at the standing prairie dog, while the standing prairie dog is looking back at him.Here's our family picture on our way out of the zoo after a long hot day. Sarah was not happy at all and Noah had fallen asleep. We did have a fun day, though!







Noah has finally decided walking is great and he is getting pretty good at it. Makes me sad he is getting so big!



Saturday while we were cleaning out the garage Aaron uncovered Daniel's bike. We tried all last year to get him to ride it without training wheels without much luck. He was too much of a fraidy cat last year. Yesterday when Daniel saw his bike he hopped on and basically picked up on riding it right away. He spent the rest of the day just riding it all around. Way to go Daniel!!