"God doesn't give children with special needs to strong people; He gives children with special needs to ordinary, weak people and then gives them strength. Raising a child with special needs doesn't take a special family, it makes a special family."--Author Unknown

Saturday, April 9, 2011

Staycation Days #2,3,4, and Josh's Birthday Party

Tuesday on Spring Break I thought I would attempt to take the kids bowling. I say attempt because I was trying to do it all by myself since Aaron was at work. We headed over to the Syracuse Family Center where they have Bowling and Galactic Miniature Golfing. I hadn't planned on taking the kids miniature golfing, but they had a special that morning and Daniel and Josh begged me to to miniature golfing. I caved and so we went Galactic Golfing which is miniature golfing in the dark with black lights. I took a picture right before we went inside to miniature golf. It was the last time you see Sarah and Daniel smiling. Once we got back inside they have the course set up as a ship wreck with storm sounds--lightning and thundering. Once Sarah heard this she took off back outside the golf course. She did not like it at all. I had to leave everyone else inside and go get her. When I brought her back inside she just screamed. I tried to show her how to putt her ball, but she would have none of it and only wanted to be held. Also as soon as we got back inside Daniel looked terrified and told me he had changed his mind and didn't want to go golfing after all. I basically heard this the whole time we were in the golf course:
Daniel kept screaming that he needed lubs (loves) and Sarah just was screaming. I ended up carrying Sarah and reassuring Daniel while trying to push Noah's stroller through the course one handed. I was glad Josh and Matthew cheated their way through the whole course so we got finished rather quickly. Whew!!

Next we headed over to do some bowling. Sarah was not to fun to be with because she thought every turn should be her turn. She is not very good at taking turns so she would scream when we let the boys take their turns. She would try to escape my grasp and when she did she would run over and pick up a ball and try to throw it down the lane. She was a handful!! There were times I had to hold her in my one arm while I bowled using the other arm. Finally towards the end of the game she finally figured out everyone got two attempts to bowl the ball then it was her turn again. Unfortunately about this time she got a strike which meant she only got one turn that round and it set her off all over again. The kids have developed their own technique of bowling. They like to do some rocket bowling. They back up all the way to where we sit and run as fast as they can toward the lane and throw their ball. They think they get a better score this way. However, Josh attempted this technique and it turned out into some parallel bowling. He backed up and started running, but he tripped and ended up throwing the ball toward the people next to us. Not down another lane, but actually AT the people next to us. That was the last time I let them do rocket bowling. I think the people around us let out a sigh of relief when they heard me say no more!! Here's one of the rare times the kids were all sitting down with no one crying for two minutes. I had to take a picture because I was so shocked this short moment even happened at all!!Wednesday we headed over to the Dinosaur Park. It was a relatively nice day so I wanted to be outside to enjoy it! I think the kids liked it, too. Luckily Aaron got off work a little early so he got to come and help me out. I am always up for some help!!I love this sign. It says, "World's Most Dangerous Creature". I thought it was funny to pose the kids behind the cage.We were walking around when Daniel climbed up a sign to get a better look. That's when I noticed he hadn't bothered to put socks on that day. I asked him why and he said he couldn't find any socks so he just decided not to wear any. Nice!The kids had fun playing on the playgrounds. Josh figured out how to crawl on top. Daniel and Sarah saw him up there and tried to follow without much success.While we were there our visit got cut short because we got notice that someone wanted to view our house in 30 minutes and unfortunately we hadn't left the house in "viewing" condition. We were about a 30 minute drive away from home so we raced home hoping to beat the realtor bringing the people by. We did a fast mad cleaning frenzy and got the house in presentable condition and were out before the realtor came by. Whew!! Having the house up for sale and keeping it spotless at all times is quite difficult with 5 little mess makers--6 if you include Aaron, too.


Thursday was Baby Animal Days up in Logan. I thought the kids would like seeing the baby farm animals in addition to the baby bears and other exotic animals they had there. It was raining that morning, but I thought we would attempt it anyway. Here's what the drive started out like: It quickly turned into this:When we finally got up to Logan it was really snowing. I didn't want to spend the whole day outside in the cold getting snowed on. We decided to do something else. We headed over to the Gossner cheese plant. I wanted to pick up some Squeaky Cheese because I think it's pretty tasty. I, unfortunately, am the only one who thinks so in this family because no one else would eat any. Now I have a nice bag of Squeaky Cheese that probably won't get eaten because I am the only one that likes it. Nice! We then drove by the Logan Temple and Tabernacle just to look at it. On the way home we stopped by to look at the Brigham City temple under construction.Friday morning was Josh's birthday. To surprise him Aaron got up at 5 am and went to the store to pick up some balloons to decorate his new bike with. Josh was excited to come upstairs and see his first birthday present.We gave Josh the choice of a birthday party or going to the movies to see the new Diary of a Wimpy Kid movie and then out to lunch with a friend. He chose the movie instead of the party so that's what we did. We went to the earliest showing of the movie (because it was the cheapest) and then out to lunch. That movie is actually quite funny for adults and kids. Aaron and I laughed quite a bit which was surprising to me. The kids actually enjoyed the whole movie because we didn't have to take anyone out at all during the movie--including Sarah and Noah. It was great! Next our friends joined us for lunch at McDonald's. That's where Josh blew out his birthday candles on his birthday cake decorated with a book as per Josh's request. He wanted it decorated with a book because he loves to read so much.One of Josh's presents was the movie Tangled which we watched later that evening for Family Movie Night. We liked that movie, too.Josh loved getting some new Wii games in addition to his bike and movie. Also while G&G T were up at our house for Noah's birthday they let Josh open his birthday present then too. Josh was excited to get another "strong" shirt and some books. It is a muscle shirt, but for some reason my kids call them "strong" shirts. Kind of funny. Josh doesn't know how to sleep in. Even on Spring Break he has been waking up at 6 am and getting in the shower. This in turn wakes up Daniel who gets in the shower with Josh. However, getting up that early every morning doesn't work out so well for Daniel. He has been "Chuckles" (ornery) all week long. I know he must be exhausted because in addition to the orneriness he falls asleep as soon as he's in the car for any longer than 30 seconds. Here he was yesterday afternoon: We have had a busy, but fun week. However, I am glad to get back in the regularly scheduled routine of school next week. That's because I am about to pull a Daniel and fall asleep if I sit still anywhere for longer than 30 seconds. It doesn't help because Noah thinks that sleeping through the night is not a fun thing to do anymore.....Zzzzzzzzzzzzz

Friday, April 8, 2011

Happy Birthday Josh!!!

Happy Birthday to my Joshy boy! I can't believe he went from my 9 pound 8 ounce baby boy to my big 8 year old!!He doesn't get scared very easily. He is my daredevil who is always up for most anything. He has been that way since I can remember. Santa doesn't even scare him.He has always been in touch with his silly side!! He is such a sweet kid! He is very helpful. He loves to cook and to read. As for the birthday interview here goes:

1. Fav. color: RED


2. Fav. Activity: Playing the Wii


3. Fav. Food: Lasagna


4. Fav. Subject: Reading


5. Fav. Book: Harry Potter/ Diary of a Wimpy Kid


6. Fav. Candy: Hershey Bar


We are so glad Josh is a part of our family. He helps me out so much. He is a joy to have around!! Happy birthday!!

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Noah's 1st Cake

Yesterday morning I was sleeping in bed when I heard horrible screaming coming from downstairs. That woke me right up and I ran downstairs to see what was wrong. That's when I noticed the nice bouquet of balloons. Aaron had picked up a bouquet of balloons to celebrate Noah's birthday with. All the horrible screaming was coming from all the kids who were fighting over Noah's birthday balloons. The balloons were a surprise to me. Aaron had gotten up extra early that morning and ran to the store to get them before he went to work. When I say extra early that means really early because he has to be AT work by 6 am. It was a nice surprise for everyone and a sweet thing for Aaron to do. Aaron even got enough balloons to every kid could have their own. Noah really liked his birthday balloons, too:For all the kids' first birthdays I make them their own cake to destroy/eat/smear. Here was Noah's first cake:Noah didn't quite know what to do with it. I finally had to take his hand and smear it in the cake and then let him taste it. From there he was hooked and made a pretty good mess. His favorite part seemed to be the frosting.I also made another cake for everyone else to enjoy. The cake was even Daniel friendly so everyone got to enjoy it! We invited G&G T up for cake and ice cream and were glad they both could join us. After letting Noah smear/destroy/eat his cake for a little while, we cleaned him off and let him open his presents. He of course had plenty of help from his over anxious siblings. He got a fun rattle.He also got some clothes and a neat phone with lots of buttons to push. That phone quickly got taken away by Sarah who possessively played with it the rest of the night. I don't think anyone else got a turn after she got hold of it. Noah settled for the tissue paper to play with. He also got a nice, new car seat. He isn't quite big enough to face forward yet, but he doesn't seem to mind. What a big boy!! Now what to do with the infant car seat because we won't be needing it again....

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Birthday Boy Noah

My sweet baby boy Noah's birthday was today. I went back and read my old blog posts about his birth and about his rough start. By looking at him today you would have never guessed he was a preemie baby born 7 weeks early and he also had a hole in his lung. Although he spent a month in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit and then was on an apnea monitor with oxygen for two months at home he is thriving today and I am very grateful!! He did get the last laugh while I was still pregnant though. He decided to turn breech at the last minute requiring me to get a C-section which was not pleasant. However, other than that he has been a very happy go lucky child and all of us love him a lot. I can't remember what life was before him and I can't imagine living without him in our family either. Babies grow and change so fast. Here are some pictures of him this last year: Here is right after he was born. He was on a ventilator and he also had an umbilical central line for access to blood and to administer medications through.Finally got off the ventilator, but still needs a nasal cannula for oxygen. This was one of the rare times he was actually awake in the NICU. Most the time he was too tired to even open his eyes.Here's his blessing day. He was blessed with his oxygen tubing in place. Aaron was a little nervous about that, but it all worked out.Here's the smiley happy guy attached to NO cords:Here's his one year pictures. He really is a sweet good natured baby. I love to squeeze him and hold him!!
Happy 1st Birthday Noah!! We love you, cute boy!!

Monday, April 4, 2011

Spring Break Staycation Day #1

Oh Spring Break snuck up on me this year. We decided not go anywhere this year because we are still licking our wounds from last year's vacation/sick leave time use. Between Josh's hospital stay, my hospital stay and Noah's hospital stay last year we used up quite a bit of sick leave and vacation. That means Aaron will stay at work while I will single handedly try to entertain my kids, keep them from not fight and try to have fun. A pretty tall order for sure!! Today for first day of our staycation I was either super brave or super crazy (or a little of both). I took all five kids down to The Living Aquarium down in Sandy alone...all by myself....me vs. 5 kids. Needless to say I was nervous!! We had never been the the Aquarium before so I wanted to check it out. It was really fun. I was starting to have second thoughts about going there when we arrived and I found Noah had had a blowout in the car seat. Great way to start out right?! Luckily I changed him and cleaned him up the best I could. I didn't think anyone would look close enough to see the poo stains on his shirt--GROSS! I didn't have a spare outfit in the diaper bag that would fit him. Doh!! The spare outfit in the diaper bag was size 3-6 months so I didn't think Noah would appreciate that seeing as he will be a year old tomorrow. Anyway, since we were already in the parking lot I decided to keep going. I was also worried about Sarah. She has a mind of her own and likes to wander off when she is not interested in things. I had the opposite problem today. She wanted to look at EVERYTHING for a LONG time. I had to pry her off the exhibits to move along with her brothers. Everyone was well behaved today and I got my sheep (aka kid) herding badge today. Instead of nipping at everyone's heels to keep them together I just had to call out their names all the time. By the end I am sure everyone in the whole aquarium knew all my kids' names. Oh well it kept everyone together so I don't care. I am glad that Noah is not mobile at this point, but watch out when he gets to walking that's for sure!! We had lots of fun. However, getting out the door this morning was crazy. We had to clean up the house and then make sure everyone was fed. Noah certainly enjoyed his oatmeal if you can't tell. (You gotta hate the 9 o'clock oatmeal shadows--instead of a 5 o'clock shadow). Then everyone had to brush their teeth. I think it is physically impossible for Daniel to brush his teeth without getting toothpaste on his clothes. I had to send him back two extra times to really scrub his teeth and each time he came back with even more toothpaste on his shirt. This happens every morning and evening, too.The kids loved looking at all the different kinds of fish.It was also nice because Matthew and Josh could actually read the signs by themselves and learn about the different fish, too.One of Daniel's favorite fish was the algae eaters. As Daniel put it, "The allergy eaters pick up all the rocks and eat the allergies off them." I thought it was too cute to correct him.I loved watching the jelly fish swim/float or whatever they do. I could sit and watch them move around all day. I find it relaxing.
They also had a touching area. You could pet/touch the sting rays as they swam by. Josh loved it!! He got my no fear/daredevil quality from me. Matthew and Daniel didn't even try to touch them. Sarah loved playing in the water until she actually touched a sting ray swimming by which freaked her out. After that she wouldn't touch the water.In the other petting area they had some starfish, sea urchins and a mini sting ray you could touch. Again Josh touched everything and loved it. Matthew tried touching the star fish, but nothing else. Daniel and Sarah refused to touch anything.The kids liked looking at the penguins. By looking at the penguins in their enclosure it is hard to believe the penguins are almost as tall and even taller than the kids!Josh the ham wanted me to take a picture of everyone.Sarah got her climbing fix in when she saw this "Ribbit". She calls all frogs ribbits.You can see Josh really enjoyed himself in the petting area. Look at how sopping wet his shirt and pants are:After the Aquarium we stopped by for some Pace Bars at Paces. All the boys wanted to sit on the barstools. Sarah was upset because she couldn't climb up on them. Josh was nice enough to lift her up and put her on the barstool. It was nice because once she got up there, she couldn't get back down until she got some help.Sarah enjoyed her Pace bar a little too fast and got a brain freeze which made her cry. Instead of a Pace bar I got a small shake that I shared with Noah. He LOVED it despite it's very COLD temperature.

Sunday, April 3, 2011

Playing, Picnics, Parties and Conference

We like to have fun with our kids. Sarah was watching TV and was totally engrossed in it. Aaron snuck up on her and scared her. She was NOT happy about it!!
Right after she crawled up into my lap to get loves. Her face looked pretty pitiful. Friday was such a beautiful day. We are getting Spring Fever here! We decided to enjoy the beautiful warm weather and took the kids to the park and had a picnic. It was nice to be outside without a jacket or coat on! However, it was short lived since we woke up this morning (Sunday) to a fresh layer of snow on everything. Doh!! Anyway, all the kids had a lot of fun at the park.Noah had his first slide ride. He didn't quite know what to think of it. It didn't help that he almost fell off the end of the slide either. Good thing Aaron was there to catch him!
The rest of the kids had fun playing on the slides. Here's Daniel and Sarah getting ready to go down a big tube slide.Saturday the weather continued to be beautiful for the most part. We had the "birthday" celebration that afternoon. My birthday, sister's birthday and my Dad's birthday all are within three days of each other. We usually get together to celebrate every year and this year was no different. After eating a yummy lunch the boys headed out to play some football. The dads seemed to be playing with minor assistance from the kids.While we were at G&G T's house we got to pick up Daniel's underwear that he left there last week. While G&G T were watching the kids last week, Daniel and Josh begged to take a bath. G&G T being the softies they are let them take their much wanted bath. Daniel made himself at home and got undressed putting his dirty underwear in G&G T's hamper. The underwear didn't get noticed until Grandma did laundry. Knowing that my Dad hadn't suddenly started wearing little kids underwear, she figured what had happened. She was nice enough to wash them for me and we got them back Saturday. While we were there Matthew kept pestering Grandpa to let Matthew help him. That really meant Matthew wanted to go on a lawn mower/tractor ride. Grandpa was gracious enough to oblige. Matthew loved it. Also while we were there Noah got to check out the baby swing. He loved it for the most part. He didn't really like it as much when Sarah was pushing him, though. She would push him quite jerkily and he kept hitting his mouth on the front part of the swing. After a little bit of that, he'd had enough.Seeing as Grandpa T is very difficult to buy presents for, he started making a list of things he wanted throughout the year. Of course all of us called up Grandma T to get ideas of what to get Grandpa T. When we all called she read off the list to each of us. When we showed up Saturday we unfortunately found out Grandpa had quite a few duplicate gifts. Great. He won't be hurting for haircutting capes and magazine subscriptions to say the least. Maybe next time we should coordinate a little better--at least that's what I am thinking :).


Later that night it was the Priesthood session of Conference. Aaron wanted to take Josh to the Priesthood session. We got home from the birthday party about 10 minutes before the session started so they had to both hurry and get dressed. Josh hurried a little too fast and put his shirt on inside out.
He didn't notice it was inside out. However, he couldn't understand why his tie wouldn't hang right. Hmmmm I wonder?!
Kids say some of the funniest things. The other day I was tucking Daniel and Josh into bed. I said, "Sleep tight." and Daniel finished the saying with, "Don't let the big bugs bite!!" Also while we were at the pediatrician's office the power was out. Daniel said, "Oh the lightricity is out!" I wanted to write it down really fast before I forgot it. Funny kids!

Friday, April 1, 2011

The Dog House, Lots of Help and Brotherly Love

What a morning!! Friday mornings Josh does a cup stacking class at school that starts at 8 am. That means that Josh and Matthew leave for school at the same time which causes mass pandemonium in the morning. This morning was even worse. Matthew was on his regular schedule of eating breakfast, going to the bathroom and taking a shower. He was on the getting out of the shower part when I hear from Josh downstairs, "Moooooom!! Matthew just got out of the shower and didn't wash his bum very well and he's sitting on my bed!" Then I heard Josh tell Matthew, "Get off my bed and use Daniel's bed!" How's that for brotherly love?! Anyway, Daniel heard that and started running downstairs screaming at Matthew to get off his bed. I had to intervene before it got worse. Matthew had to jump back in the shower to finish washing everything and I guess I will be washing sheets today. **Sigh** Anyway, later on in the morning Josh put on Matthew's shoes to wear to school because he couldn't find his own. That didn't turn out very well, either. Good thing for Josh I was around when Matthew discovered Josh wearing Matthew's shoes--otherwise it could have been bad. I was breathing a sigh of relief when Josh and Matthew both left for school all clean and in one piece. However, I did realize once they were gone that this will be my last day of "freedom" because all next week is Spring Break with no school. Ugh! Oh well I have a few ideas for activities to do next week in mind. Hopefully everyone and the weather will be wanting to participate. I can't believe it is Spring Break already!! Lately I have been having lots of help from lots of little hands. Noah has discovered the army crawl and is getting pretty good at it. He also discovered the wipes container and how fun it is to empty it. He has gotten quite good at that, too. Here is Josh helping to put all the wipes back in the container after Noah had emptied them one of his multiple times.Daniel likes to "surprise" me every morning. While I am in the shower he comes to tell me not to come out for a minute because he is going to surprise me. Every morning it is the same surprise--he makes my bed for me. I think it is very sweet. I even love how he attempts to put all the pillows on the bed, too. I love his surprises even if it is the same surprise EVERY morning ;). Daniel also likes to draw the same picture for me every morning. He writes out the name Mom and Dad with a heart by the names to show he loves us. He then hides the picture for me to find every morning. He gets so excited to play the game hot and cold to help me find his surprise picture. I love kids at this age--they are so sweet! Sarah has been working on her mothering skills lately. From changing her stuffed baby's stinky bum with real wipes to trying to feed her baby she loves imitating me. She even tried her hand at feeding Noah yesterday. She got her pretend food in her toy cup with a toy spork and sat down to feed him. I had just finished feeding him and was cleaning up when I noticed what she was doing. I still hadn't wiped off the spilled food on Noah's tray and Sarah though it was gross, but it didn't deter her in trying to feed him. Noah, surprisingly, didn't cry and actually kind of went a long with it. Even if he didn't want to open his mouth Sarah forced the spork in his mouth anyway. Then Sarah would take a few bites herself. Funny girl!! I think Sarah is going to toughen Noah up whether he wants to be tough or not--poor guy!


I put Sarah down for her nap the other day. I went back to check on her later. I love how peaceful and innocent they look when they are asleep. Seeing this it is hard to believe how much mischief they actually get into while they are awake!!
Also kids can be quite sweet. Aaron and I try to have lunch together once a week. We go during school so we only have Sarah, Daniel and Noah with us. We usually go to Cafe Rio where we get salads. The salads there are very big so I usually save half of my salad for Josh to eat for dinner. He loves it. Wednesday Susan, Aaron's sister, came for a visit. Noah was not feeling the best so I stayed home with Noah and Daniel while Aaron took Matthew, Josh and Sarah to dinner at Cafe Rio with him to see Susan. Josh ordered a salad and was sweet enough to think of me. He only ate half his salad and saved the other half for me to eat at home. He was so excited to tell me he had saved half his salad for me. What a sweet guy! It is times like this that make parenting awesome!! Aaron was in the dog house this week. We had a little disagreement (aka argument or fight) earlier in the week and he dug himself into a large hole. I was quite mad. Anyway, he came home from work with some flowers and chocolate yesterday to make up. I don't know if it was the flowers or the chocolate or both, but we are now on speaking terms again. Good thing we don't get in too many fights/arguments/discussions very often!! I am enjoying my chocolate and flowers, though. However, as much as I liked my flowers and chocolate, hopefully it will be another long while before we have our next argument/discussion/fight again.