I have said that I would never do a lot of things and I must say I have learned the lesson Never Say Never!! I have had to eat my words many times, but here are the top 10:
1. I said I would never listen to Country Music--that changed when my son, Matthew, could memorize and repeat the lyrics back to me word for word. When I realized what was being said and what Matthew was repeating to me and whoever else would listen I changed what I was listening to. Country seems to be somewhat cleaner than alternative music.
2. I said I would never nurse my baby longer than a year. That changed when I had Daniel and the only thing he could tolerate was breast milk. I ended up nursing him for 18 months until I just couldn't take it anymore. I had also found some other things he could eat and tolerate by then.
3. I said I would never shop at a health food store. That also changed with Daniel when I was desperately trying to find food that he could eat. I didn't consider myself a naturalist, organic or herb person; however, they have a lot more things than that with the prices to match--unfortunately. Desperate times call for desperate measures. FYI--Soy milk really isn't bad tasting after all.
4. I said I would never marry someone from out of state. That changed when I met Aaron who incidentally is from Texas in my college karate class. Good thing he learned to love Utah!!
5. I said I would never feed my kids poptarts. That also changed with Daniel and Matthew. It is one of the few foods Daniel likes and can eat and one of the few things Matthew will eat because he is quite picky.
6. I said I would never let my kids play in a playland--that changed when I realized I can have a normal conversation with Aaron that is somewhat uninterrupted for longer than 5 minutes. It also helps get some energy out when it is cold outside, too. I just try not to think about all the nasty stuff that is inside or coated on the insides of the playlands-ooooooooooooo!! The kids just have to have a long, hot shower when they get home.
7. I said I would never have a home birth because that is CRAZY!! Well, as you all know that changed 3 weeks ago. My opinion of home births still has not changed and that they are still crazy, but sometimes you just don't have a choice.
8. I said I would never touch raw meat. I kept true to that until I started college and my roommates helped me handle it once or twice--thanks KiLee! Pasta Roni was my staple in college :). I still don't enjoy handling raw meat, but Aaron just wouldn't go along with my vegetarian ways. We still don't have a whole lot of meat, but we definitely have more than what I did when I was single.
9. I said I would never tell my kids, "Because I said so." Well that flew out the window soon after they started talking and asking why even after I had already given a reason.
10. I said I would never pay for cable or satellite service, but Aaron wouldn't hear of it. He did patiently wait for the first three years of our marriage until he couldn't handle watching the fuzzy channels anymore. I had to succumb because it is the only thing he wanted for his birthday five years ago. I still don't know how I feel about it, but Aaron won't hear of going without again.
Like I said...Never say never!!